What is The Secret Love? - Tara

Once you tell your lover, I love you, and they say the same with the genuine feelings behind those three words each of you:
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• think the other is worth untold riches
• is committed to being there for the other wherever and whenever, and
• is so attached to the other there is a zealous need to hold on to them
  
  

Wow! is that a secret?

For many these three points revealed is a surprise. Love is thought of as a feeling and you either feel it or you don't. But love in reality is a community of two, That’s how love is revealed. And yet, beyond your little community you are an individual in your own right, right?
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The balance between you, as you, and your community of two as described above in the three points is where the keys to successful love lie.

Finding Your Balance in Love

There are three things that you need to achieve in love, and your lover must do the same:
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• have a good life
• have needs met, rights respected, and values aligned, and
• maintain an ongoing sense of perfection in the lover
  
  

The trick is in ensuring your lover achieves these things while you do the same. This is love!

The above is an extract from the blog post: What Are The keys To A Successful Romantic Relationship?

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