7 layers of ultimate intimacy
As you get to know your lover, and over the long term stay in love with them, intimacy becomes a crucial part of your relationship.
But intimacy has many dimensions and mastering it takes a little understanding.
I will show you the 7 layers of intimacy and how they come together to strengthen your loving relationship.
Each layer is more intimate than the one before.
As you go deeper into you, you go wider too, like the pyramid below.
And so, to find real intimacy in love:
You have to be prepared to let your lover delve deep into your pyramid to see who you are and more importantly why you are.
But, you have to be careful. Deep down, your fears, desires and passions can be damaging to share. You will also have memories that only you should know.
Are you keeping your lover in the dark when you don't share these?
No! and here's why:
Only by sharing depth and breadth does trust develop, and trust is crucial for love to flourish.
There is a balance, therefore, as to how deeply you share yourself, and how deeply should you expect your lover to share with you. With such depth, how wide in context.
Now it is over to you. Have a think about the seven layers and how they work in your relationship. How can you let your lover in to your soul more and develop that trust, and in return how can you get to know your lover more.
Did I miss anything?
Leave a comment on how you intend to develop your loving relationship.
Find more details on love and intimacy in my book here
Don't forget to share--->>
When looking at intimacy in love, this is how you should see it.
Would you like to contribute to the Blog?
We'd love to have your input.
This section will not be visible in live published website. Below are your current settings:
Current Number Of Columns are = 2
Expand Posts Area =
Gap/Space Between Posts = 10px
Blog Post Style = card
Use of custom card colors instead of default colors =
Blog Post Card Background Color = current color
Blog Post Card Shadow Color = current color
Blog Post Card Border Color = current color
Publish the website and visit your blog page to see the results